Friday, December 30, 2005
relationships and flowers
you know how i always rant abt wanting to have my fairytale relationship with some foreign guy somewhere? well u know.. i think im actually well.. scared of it.. having a relationship. a good friend of mine just got dumped by his gf of 2 yrs. im feeling really sad for him.. he's really upset. and im feeling really helpless too. he's upset cos of all the time, effort and sacrifices he made for her..everybody expected these 2 to get married. i mean they are like the sweetest couple ive ever known.. but her ditching him has never ever crossed my mind.. or anybody elses.. even him for that matter.. poor him.. what were the results of his sacrifices?? i know i wouldnt have done as much in my own relationship. he's too much of a caring guy.. and she still dumped him.. which brings me to the point that i need to ask..
why bother in the first place?but then.. on the other hand.. there are special moments..something only a friend cant provide..oh well.. fairytale relationships almost NEVER happen.. i mean.. it has been said by someone close to me that u almost never end up with ure true love anyway..cos ure true love wouldnt necessarily have u for his or her true love.. so.. yeah.. such is fate.. such is life.. such is love.
i feel sorry for u old friend.. i wish i could help ease ure pain but this is something u gotta go thru in life.. i hope u will be ure happy self again.. but also know.. im always here for ya ok? take care and when u book out one of these days.. lets meet up yeah?
are relationships truly what they seem? are they worth the effort? can someone enlighten me .. tell me something i can think abt..
Bob Smurf at 1:20 AM